One thing I have learned after more than 27 years of marriage to my husband, is that there are still things I don’t know about him. There are moments that still surprise me. If you and your partner are STILL learning and growing as a couple, here are some questions to ask your partner as you travel to deepen your connection, bring on the laughter, and create moments where you can reminisce together.
This post was originally intended for all couples, but when I printed the FREE list of questions for myself (get your PRINTABLE LIST below) and started asking my husband, I realized that questions I would want to ask my husband now are quite different than the “get to know you” questions we would have asked as a dating or newly married couple. This post focuses on fun questions for couples who have an established relationship.
Why Ask Questions?
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Would you agree that sometimes you get so busy with life or even just the thoughts and to-do lists in your head, that you are left searching for conversation topics or fun questions to ask your partner on date nights and road trips? Perhaps you realize that you have spent the last thirty minutes driving together in silence.
Maybe your conversations are focused on:
- How was your day?
- What’s going on with the kids?
- What do we need to do this weekend?
- What would you like for dinner?
My blogging friend, Mariham Hanna, has this to say about strengthening relationships by having a list of fun questions to ask your partner:
Let’s face it, if you’ve been in a relationship with your spouse for a long time, dates can become repetitive or even boring at times. Yes, you can always explore new restaurants, cities, and experience new activities together…but sometimes you just don’t know what to say during these dates. You may find that you don’t have much to talk about with your spouse because you technically know everything about each other…
So, what do you do? Like many of us do nowadays, we pick up our phones, scroll through social media or your email or your texts.
Well, I am here to tell you that you don’t need to pick up that phone to get distracted or look for conversation starters. In fact, I am here to encourage you to put your phones aside and enjoy each other’s company.
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Guidelines to Follow for Relationship Questions
Maybe you need some practical ideas or reminders to make sure these fun questions for couples will strengthen your relationship and enhance your listening skills:
- Ask only one question at a time. This encourages deeper discussions, especially when you ask open-ended questions instead of questions that can be answered with yes or no.
- Take turns asking questions.
- Don’t interrupt or try to defend your position while your partner is sharing. Your goal is to listen.
- Listen to understand your partner, not simply to formulate your reply.
- Ask follow-up questions. It takes the conversation to another level.
- Keep the dialogue open.
161 Fun Questions to Ask Your Partner as You Travel
In a world full of busyness along with devices and gadgets that connect us to the world around us, sometimes you just have to disconnect from electronics, leave work at the office, take some time away from kids or friends, and connect on a personal level with the person sitting right next to you.
It is all about keeping the romance and friendship alive. The goal is to improve your relationship and make it stronger. AND what you need are some FUN questions to ask your partner to help you connect.
What better way to do this than when you are exploring together! These are the perfect travel questions for couples or lazing by the beach questions or hiking a mountain together questions.
Scroll to the end of the post for a printable list of “FUN QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR PARTNER AS YOU TRAVEL”
Adventure and Travel Questions for Couples
1. What is one of the favorite adventures that we have had together as a family?
2. What has been your favorite adventure for us as a couple?
3. What adventure would you like to do next as we travel?
4. Is there an adventure that you really DO NOT wish to do?
Fun Questions to Ask Your Partner About Their Career
5. If you went back to college all over again, would you study the same thing?
6. What did you want to be when you grew up?
7. What do you want to do when you retire?
Questions About Their Youth
8. What is one of your favorite childhood memories?
9. What is one of the craziest things you have ever done?
10. Who was your favorite teacher as a child? In college?
11. What is your favorite memory with your mom?
12. What is your favorite memory with your dad?
13. Did you collect anything as a child?
14. What is a quality that you look for in a friend?
15. Did you ever want another brother? Sister?
16. How does your life compare to how you imagined it when you were younger?
17. What was your favorite subject in high school?
18. What do you remember about learning how to drive?
19. Do you think our marriage has been a good example for our children? How could we do better?
20. Is there a personality trait in others that you don’t enjoy?
Relationship Questions About Faith
21. What inspires gratitude in your life?
22. Do you believe in God?
23. Have you seen any miracles in your life lately?
24. What do you think God is doing to help our marriage/relationship right now?
25. How can we prioritize God in our life more?
26. Is there a random act of kindness that has really made a difference to you?
27. What has helped you grow closer to God this past year?
28. Do you have a favorite quote?
29. What have you been praying for recently?
Thoughtful Couples Questions About Finances
30. What are the three top financial goals we should be working toward?
31. If money was no object, what would you choose: a winter home, a year-long trip around the world, or a boat?
32. What would you do if you won $10 million? How would you spend the money?
33. What would you rather have: money, happiness, or good looks?
34. Who is the better money manager in our relationship?
Fun Questions to Ask Your Partner About Food
35. What is your favorite food indulgence?
36. What is your favorite restaurant? What do you think is my favorite restaurant?
37. What food do you dislike the most?
38. What is one meal you could eat for the rest of your life?
39. Do you have a favorite cereal?
40. What is your favorite ice cream or gelato flavor?
Couples Questions to Dive Deeper
41. What would be the title of your autobiography? If it were made into a movie, who would you want to portray you?
42. What is one of your pet peeves?
43. Is there something that you would change about yourself?
44. Is there a language you would like to learn?
45. What is your biggest regret?
46. What is your biggest strength?
47. What has been your best day ever?
48. What three words describe you the best?
49. What three words describe me the best?
50. What makes you feel most loved?
51. Is there a new hobby that you would love to try?
52. What is the best advice you have received? How has it made a difference?
53. What is something that you are most proud of?
54. What is your greatest talent?
55. What is the most courageous thing that you have done?
56. What is one thing you wish you could do?
Intimate Couples Questions About Your Relationship
Have you ever wondered what your partner’s LOVE LANGUAGE is? Or yours? Have a little fun together and take the Love Language Quiz to discover each of your primary love languages, what it actually means in your relationship, and how you can use this knowledge to better connect with each other.
These would be perfect relationship questions to ask your husband or wife on a road trip!
57. What are your top 5 suggestions for honeymoon or romantic destinations?
58. What is a favorite date that we have gone on together?
59. What is a date that you would like to go on together?
60. Do you have a favorite steamy movie scene?
61. What turns you on the most?
62. What is your favorite type of kiss?
63. What could I do to help you feel more loved?
64. Where do you see us in 5 years?
65. What is one thing we could do better as a couple?
66. What is one thing you have learned about having a successful marriage/relationship?
67. What are some positive things from our friends’ marriages that we could add to our marriage?
68. What characteristics did you see in me that made you want to marry me?
69. What’s one thing you look forward to most as we grow old together?
70. How long before you knew you wanted to marry me?
71. What do you love most about us as a couple?
72. What could we do to add more romance to our lives?
73. What is one thing you would never want to change about me? Yourself?
74. Who says “I’m sorry” most often?
75. What are the 3 most important life goals you would want us to set?
Fun Questions to Ask Your Partner About Traditions & Holidays
76. Which of our family traditions do you like the most?
77. Are there any traditions that you would you like to add to our life?
78. Which holiday could you do without?
79. What is a favorite tradition from your childhood?
80. What is one tradition from your childhood that you wish we did now?
General Couples Questions
81. What was the hardest life lesson to learn?
82. What is your favorite scent?
83. What is the most important lesson you learned this past year?
84. Who is someone you know you can count on?
85. Who is your inspiration?
86. When was a time you laughed the hardest?
87. What is one movie that you have watched recently that you could watch over and over again?
88. Now that you are older, would you ever get a tattoo? Piercing?
89. What color do you think represents me?
90. What’s your favorite inside joke we have?
91. Would you ever go to couples therapy?
92. Do you think it is ever ok to lie? If yes, in what circumstances?
93. What are your top 3 pet peeves?
94. What’s one positive thing you’ve learned from me since we’ve been together?
95. What’s the strangest thing you’ve Googled in the last week?
96. When you’re feeling low, how do you like to be supported?
97. If you changed your first name, what would you pick and why?
98. Would you ever want to attend the Olympics in person?
99. What is the worst piece of advice you have ever received?
100. What is the best piece of advice you have ever received?
101. What’s something you think I could learn from you?
102. What makes you feel loved and appreciated?
103. When it comes to money, what’s your one major rule?
104. What do you admire most about me?
105. What do you love about your mom? Your dad?
106. What’s your worst habit?
107. What are 3 things that I do that you wouldn’t want to live without?
108. What do you love about the skills you have gained in your profession?
109. What talent do you wish you had?
110. What is the nicest thing someone has done for you recently?
111. What are 5 things (besides family) that you are grateful for lately?
112. If you could have a super power, what would it be?
113. How can we be a better team?
114. What is one thing that you didn’t want to do that turned out to be a blessing in disguise?
115. What is your favorite memory of us?
116. What is the best birthday gift you have ever received?
117. Are you happy?
118. How can we keep the spark alive in our relationship?
119. What’s a hobby (or experience) you think we should try?
120. What do you pray for the most?
121. Do you think we make each other better people?
122. How did you know you were in love with me?
123. What is something that surprised you about falling in love?
Travel Questions for Couples
124. Where would you like to travel to next?
125. What has been your favorite travel experience thus far?
126. Which country intrigues you the most? Why?
127. What are you most looking forward to NOT doing while on vacation?
128. If you could live anywhere in the world for a year, where would you choose?
129. What is your idea of the perfect romantic getaway?
130. What is your ideal getaway for a long weekend?
131. Would you rather…have unlimited international first class tickets or never have to pay for food at restaurants?
132. What are ten things you would bring to a deserted island?
133. What is your favorite style of travel now?
134. How long does it take for you to decompress from work and life when you take a vacation?
135. What are you hoping for from our time together on our next vacation?
136. Camping or luxury hotel?
137. Have you ever wanted to see the Northern Lights?
138. Would you ever go skydiving?
140. What would you do if you could plan your ultimate day?
141. What would you wish for if you were given 3 wishes?
142. Would you rather get up early to see a sunrise or stay up late to watch a sunset?
143. Do you have a travel bucket list?
144. What is one thing you want to do on a vacation together?
Flirty Couples Questions
145. What has been the most romantic thing we have done?
146. What do you love about us?
147. Do you prefer slow and passionate or fast and intense love making?
148. What is the sexiest thing I have ever done for you?
149. Do you think it is possible to fall in love at first sight?
150. Do you enjoy breakfast in bed?
151. How do spicy texts make you feel?
152. What is your favorite cuddle position?
153. What is one thing I do that makes you smile?
154. What is something that I used to do that you wish I still did?
Retirement Questions
155. What do you look forward to the most in retirement?
156. What age would you like to retire?
157. Do you see yourself completely retired or still working part-time?
158. What do you wish you could spend more time doing?
159. What talent would you like to work on when you retire?
160. How often would you want to travel in retirement?
161. Do you ever see yourself living in another country?
Frequently Asked Questions
Why should you ask questions in a relationship?
Asking questions helps you get to know your partner better, establish trust, create boundaries, and define intimacy. Plus, it is great way to discover your partner’s communication style.
What are the signs of a serious relationship?
Your partner listens to you.
They make future plans with you.
They check on you.
They help you solve problems.
You are their priority.
They do thoughtful things for you.
They introduce you to their family and friends.
What is the average age for marriage?
For women, the average age for marriage is 27 in the United States. For men, the average age is 29.
How many US households are made up of married couples?
While 80% of US households were married couples 70 years ago, today 49% of US households are married couples.
Is traveling with your partner a good idea?
Traveling together is a great opportunity to focus on your relationship instead of everything else that pops up while you’re living your day-to-day life.
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Final Thoughts on 161 Fun Questions to Ask Your Partner as You Travel
If you have been married for a few years, you are in the middle or raising teenagers, or your are looking forward to retirement together, take a little time to connect. These relationship questions are great for weekly dates, quiet nights at home, or as you travel and explore the world together.
Build on the friendship that you have and add a little more “fun” to your life.
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Love this! As it makes both of you be present and learn to see things from a different perspective
These are some great questions. I’ll have to save these.
Awwww! These were all so fun. I’m going to ask Pablo some for later!
These are such wonderful questions! Definitely a great way to connect to one another 🙂
I ask my partner questions like these all the time haha! 🙂 Such an awesome list!!
I love this. So much of our travel downtime is spent on our phones. Great conversation starters.
Love that. Staying connected is so important, especially after you are emptynesters and kids are out of the house.
I LOVE THIS LIST!!! This is so fun! I’m reading it at the perfect time… we have been married for 7 years, we are nomadic with 2 kids, and frankly, we could use some new conversation. I will be bringing this out asap! (minus the financial part bc I swear that’s all we talk about, besides the kids and travel, haha.) Thank you for putting this together! – Linzey @thefamilyfuntour
Oh I love this idea! What a great way to really enjoy the moment and celebrate your travel experiences! I’m going to try these out on our next trip! Thanks for the great list!
What a great post! I love when we have time together and get into some of these questions. It’s so nice keeping in-the-know with each other.
How fun! Love this idea! You might learn something new about your significant other too!
What a great idea! I’m definitely saving this to come back to later, thank you!
I got into a new relationship during lockdown last year with another travel lover but because of everything we haven’t been able to travel together yet. `These questions seem like a fun way to learn more about each other. Handy for those long boring travel days!
You should have lots to talk about with this list.
Love this idea! My husband and I have a 5-hour road trip next weekend so will use these as conversation starters with my travel partner.
Have a fun trip.
What a good list of fun questions to ask my partner. I am sure we have talked about some of these. But there are some new questions on here that might bring some surprises. Maybe I need to randomly draw a question and see what we answer.
Great idea!
Such a great blog post! My boyfriend and I are sitting at the airport heading back from an 11-day road trip and we could’ve used this list! I’ll definitely refer back to this for the next one ?. Xx Sara
Well, as a young couple, you have a lot to learn about each other.
Ah Jolayne, I absolutely love this! You and your husband are so cute and I love that you’re still so close after all those years together. I always say couples and families who travel together, stay together.
Exactly. And yes, out of all the people in this world, I want to travel with him the most!
What a FABULOUS post!! I love it and will certainly start referring back to it. My husband and I have been married 28 years and recently became empty nesters. The questions you list are awesome conversation starters. You nailed it!
Thanks. Happy traveling as empty nesters!
These are so great! What a fun way to spark up new conversations. I am definitely saving this for future reference!
We all can use a little help to add spice to our conversations.
Love this post. Such great questions to ask while traveling to your spouse. Pinning this cause I will be doing this on our next trip.
Let me know how it goes.
Exactly. After 25 years, I am still finding out things about my husband.
These would be great questions to ask before getting married as well as after. Thanks for sharing!
Hah oh gosh, I couldn’t ask my partner what their favorite cereal is. That would spawn quite the argument lol. Great ideas to keep the conversation going when you’re on the road spending every minute together!
This is so fun! Sometimes I feel like were so lost in our phones while were traveling, whether it’s watching a show or on social media and this is such a great way to not only be present with one another, but also get to know each other better!
This is such a good idea! I think it would work well for close family as well as your partner. I love that this will keep you both engaged (and less likely to zone out, staring at a phone!!)
What a fun idea and a great list! I think sometimes people forget to make the effort to connect.
They are perfect for couples getting to know each other.
Great post! I love your questions. Road trips can feel so long, this would definitely help pass the time.
What a fun and unique travel post! I especially enjoyed the financial section – I will definitely need to keep this insight in mind.
Aww I will use these! They are also very good questions to ask to someone you are getting to know better and is not your partner yet!
What a great list. We always spend our last night of vacation talking over favorite memories and hopes for the future. I’ll add some of your questions into our next discussion.
Quite an interesting blog post. I think I would always start with his favorite book.
That should lead to some great discussions.
A truly useful post! Pinning this to pull up these great questions for our next long road trip – it’s the best time to catch up as a couple!
This is a great list, I must try these!
Have fun.
Those are some really fun questions. I am gonna try some of them on my next trip.
They certainly do help the time to pass on long trips.
These are such fun ideas to keep the conversation interesting!! I don’t have a partner but I can use them on my friends!
I love this! My husband and I have already talked about a lot of these things, but definitely not all of them. #65 is a good one!
Good tips for future road trips!
These are all such good ways to pass the time on long journeys, definitely using these!
And you’ll be surprised what you can learn, even after 25 years.
Where would you live?
After 25 years, my husband and I are discovering new things too!
Love this! Pinned for future reference. Like a car trip or special date night! 🙂 Even after being together for 30 years! LOL!
This is a great content. Nice list. I will start using these questions as i travel
Love these ideas! Travel is such an inspiring experience, and getting closer to your partner by asking these questions during a trip can be so special, too.
This list is so helpful! I already have way too many questions I want to ask my husband 🙂
Such great content. I think every couple should reference your list
What a great idea to do these! Thank you for sharing all these. It’s so important partners keep learning about each other!!
love this idea! Would be fun to work though during traffic and our loooong road trips! thanks for the fresh perspective!